🕯 Writing Through Hard Times: How to Stay Creative When You’re Struggling
- Katrina De Milano

- 27 сент. 2025 г.
- 2 мин. чтения
How to Keep Creating When Everything Feels Heavy
There are seasons when writing flows like a current — when your ideas arrive with clarity, and the act of creation feels like a refuge.
And then there are other seasons.
The ones where the world feels fractured. Or your body. Or your heart. The ones where you sit down at the desk, open the document, and feel… nothing. Or everything. Just too much.
When life feels heavy, writing often becomes the first thing we let go of — and the last thing we dare return to. It feels indulgent, irrelevant, or simply impossible. But if writing has ever been your way of making sense of the world, then these moments — these quiet, aching moments — are exactly when your words might matter most.
Not for the world.
For you.
🪨 You Don’t Have to Be Fine to Write
The idea that writers need to be in a “good place” to write something good is a myth.
Some of the most resonant, true, and beautiful writing comes from the messiest, most uncertain spaces inside us.
You don’t need to be healed to write something healing.
You don’t need to be stable to write something grounded.
You don’t need to be wise to write something honest.
All you need is enough stillness to hear yourself — and enough courage to write anyway.
✍️ Let the Page Be a Container, Not a Performance
When life feels raw, forget the audience. Forget the structure. Forget perfection.
Let the page be what it was always meant to be: a place to lay things down.
Write without a goal.
Write badly.
Write only to feel the shape of a sentence again.
Write to name the heaviness.
Write to say: “I’m still here.”
And if you can’t write words — write silence. Write breath. Write imagery, memory, color. Write without finishing the sentence.
Let the writing meet you where you are. Not where you think you should be.
💡 Even a Whisper Is Enough
There will be days when 10 words are a victory.
When opening the document feels like defiance.
When simply returning to the rhythm of your voice — however shaky — is the boldest thing you’ll do all week.
Let that be enough.
Writing doesn’t have to be loud to be powerful.
It doesn’t have to be beautiful to be meaningful.
It only has to be yours.
🌱 Writing as a Form of Survival
In times of loss, fear, overwhelm, or grief, writing becomes more than expression — it becomes endurance. A quiet ritual. A kind of remembering.
Not because it solves anything.
But because it reminds you of who you are beneath the noise.
When everything else feels unclear or out of control, the page is one of the few places you can still meet yourself — honestly, gently, again and again.
💬 Let’s Talk
Have you ever gone through a season when writing felt impossible?
What helped you find your way back — or stay connected to your voice through it?
Let’s share the truth of it. Because the most powerful writing often begins in the dark — not with answers, but with presence.

by Katrina De Milano





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